So I have always liked boys (btw I am a girl) but now I have this huge girl crush. She is one of my best friends and I know for a fact that she is pan and maybe trans because she told me. I kinda want to tell her I like her because I am like pretty sure she likes me, but I don't want to ruin our friendship. I also really want to tell my best friend (who also knows my crush is pan) that I think I am lgbtq+ and that I like **insert my crush's name**, but I am worried that she would not want to be friends with me any more. To make things worse, I am not even sure if a am straight, bi, or lesbian so I don't want to come out to them as one and then have to come out again because that is awkward and embarassing. PLEASE, I NEED HELP ASAP.