A community for lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, and questioning teens to talk about their sexual identity, including: coming out, relationships, friendships, organizations, school, and current events.
I’m lesbian. But for a long time I was in denial because I didn’t want to be, because my life was already difficult and I didn’t want it to become more difficult.
I was asked out by a guy. I said yes (which was stupid, but I thought maybe my gayness would go away). We became really close, although I could never do anything physical with him. I finally realized how unfair I was being to him, and to myself. I broke up with him, but I still really want to be his friend.
He really is a great guy, and I’ll give him all the time he needs, or if he doesn’t want to be my friend I can accept that. I feel awful though.