
Teen Sexuality Support Group
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hey so i'm seriously thinking about haveing sex with my bf for the first time(wich is a big deal for me since i'm a virgin) but i'm scared that i might be moveing to fast. i know he wants have sex and i do to but i just dont know.....what is a good amount of time to be going out with somebody befor you have sex??? i mean is there an ideal length of time or wat?? i've been dateing my bf for about three weeks, but i've known him practicly forever (since fith grade). but then we only started being friends in the last year or so. idk wat do you all think
oh and does anyone have any advice on how to make your fist time go more smoothly??
thanks lots xxxx
oh and does anyone have any advice on how to make your fist time go more smoothly??
thanks lots xxxx
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The best advice I ever got concerning this, I will share with you....
Never have sex with someone with whom you are not COMPLETELY comfortable discussing all of the details of sex and sexuality. This means that you are comfortable talking about STDS, pregnancy concerns, birth control options and failures, cheating and the dangers of exposing your partner unknowingly to whatever a third party might carry, masterbation and the details of what pleases you, oral sex, anal sex, how you like to be touched, how you don't like to be touched, etc... etc... If you can't have a conversation about these things without giggling then its likely too soon. And when it comes to sexual satisfaction, you have to know your own body intimately before you offer it to someone else. Be prepared to teach them what you like, rather than have them try to figure it out for you. For me, a basic rule was, if I wasn't comfortable touching myself in front of them, then I wasn't going to let them touch me. After all, I own it.