if youre read do it
dont judge it on age, its your maturity and trust that counts
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I'd suggest if you need to ask here, you're too young.

Don't rush / be pushed into it. Take your time and only go further when you're ready.

Sex isn't about age. It's about what you're expressing through the act.

I lost my virginity at 15.
I thought I was in love.

That's what it's about.

It's not really about age, but some things we trust at that age aren't always what we should have done. I lost my virginity when I was 14 with a much older guy he was 20. I was naive and thought he cared about me because he fed me with lies, and I lost it, and he never spoke to me again.
It's not about sex, it can be later but building a relationship on love and enjoying each others company is just fine for now.
I am now 21 and have a 2 year old daughter and I don't want her to make the same mistake I did.
If he ever makes you feel pressured do not do it. Save it for someone who doesn't demand it or bring it up all the time.
Good Luck.

If y'all have been together for a while and you're 100% ready.
Don't do it because HE wants to..
And take precaution.

If y'all have been together for a while and you're 100% ready.
Don't do it because HE wants to..
And take precaution.

What are your goals for this relationship? What are his? Are you expecting this relationship to turn into a forever after relationship. If you are just looking for a short term sexual relationship then maybe haing sex now is OK. If you are looking for someone who is responsible and be a good man to father and support your children, then maybe waiting is a better idea. Make that decision before you start making out.

Very few people your age get pregnant because they want to. Ask the boyfriend what he plans to do when you do. People who are sexual tend to do that, you know. Planning for that eventuallity is always a good idea, before you start missing periods.

I know some 18 year old boys who are dating 14-15 year old girls just because they think they can take advantage of thegirls lack of experience and have a regular sex partner. My experience is that once a girl has sex, she wants to have the same partner forever. Boys do not think that way.

If you want to find out what his goals for the relationship really are, just tell him you have decided you are not ready to have sex with anyone yet, and will not be ready at least until you are 17. Tell him you love him, but you are not yet ready to have sex.

He will probably tell you that the only way you can show your love for him is by having sex with him, but we both know better than that.

Whenever you're ready girl. I lost it at 16, but honestly I feel that A LOT of my friends lost it WAY earlier than I did. But I am proud of my decision. So if you think you won't regret having sex with him, go for it. Just be careful. Really get to know your boyfriend and get on birth control or something.
~Beth :)

thanks guys, this is all helpful. and today is my birthday, and ive decided :) thanks for the advice

What did you decide and how do you feel about it?

I agree with allyf. If this guy is 18 then having sex with him is illegal and he could get pinned at a sex offender for the rest of his life because of it. I don't think you want that to happen since you obviously really like this guy. You might feel old enough and even be totally ready but the legal consequences could be quite serious.

drbeaker.
i decided to do it, and i feel okay with it.
allyf.
i know what you mean, and i apresstiate your honesty. i think you are right about my parents, but its not like im gonna tell them /:
Court025.
i understand what you are saying, and im happy that you gave me your advice. and i can see where you are coming from.
thank you all for the advice

I'm glad you are doing okay and everything. I hope everything works out. Please use protection because if you would get pregnant, the state would prosecute him for statuatory rape. I am a law student and we are actually working with statuatory crimes right now and that is one thing that the state will act on if a minor and an adult conceive a child.

yeah lol, i know the law. i wanted to be a lawyer, so i know a few laws off by heart.