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Okay, so i'll start from the begining,
my bf recieves photos from a friend of his. shes tiny, model quality stunning girl, she sends him a bunch of photos of her in a lacy Gstring and headband coving her boobs... she has bones in all the right places and is just perfect.....
then hes chatting to people on fb, girls.... pretty girls. girls his age, girls younger than him... and one goes on cam for him... what happened on cam i dont know..>
i found all this out without him knowing.
so i spent the last weekend at his friday through sunday....
the entire time my shirt never left my body.... im not a small girl, i HATE my body, im fat and gross and i already worried about what my bf though about sex before he got photos of his mate...
so now im worrying if maybe hes wishing i was her tiny and easy to mauver and confident and dominating..
without going into alot of detail... we had a good sex life.... toys, positions, dressing up, role playing, keeping it fun.... neither afriad to try things.....
now i wont do anything. he asks me for these things and i jsut cant bring myself to do it... i cant go on top case im worried im not good enough anymore.
shes ruined me, ruined my reationship with him and ruined my sex life.... i feel for my bf he doesnt deserve it..... but how long will he wait to find someone who'll satisfy his needs?
any feeed back is helpful, or even jsut a hug or 10
my bf recieves photos from a friend of his. shes tiny, model quality stunning girl, she sends him a bunch of photos of her in a lacy Gstring and headband coving her boobs... she has bones in all the right places and is just perfect.....
then hes chatting to people on fb, girls.... pretty girls. girls his age, girls younger than him... and one goes on cam for him... what happened on cam i dont know..>
i found all this out without him knowing.
so i spent the last weekend at his friday through sunday....
the entire time my shirt never left my body.... im not a small girl, i HATE my body, im fat and gross and i already worried about what my bf though about sex before he got photos of his mate...
so now im worrying if maybe hes wishing i was her tiny and easy to mauver and confident and dominating..
without going into alot of detail... we had a good sex life.... toys, positions, dressing up, role playing, keeping it fun.... neither afriad to try things.....
now i wont do anything. he asks me for these things and i jsut cant bring myself to do it... i cant go on top case im worried im not good enough anymore.
shes ruined me, ruined my reationship with him and ruined my sex life.... i feel for my bf he doesnt deserve it..... but how long will he wait to find someone who'll satisfy his needs?
any feeed back is helpful, or even jsut a hug or 10
if he didnt care for you and like you, surely he would have dumped you for a 'slim model girl' ? theres obviously something else about you.
keep your chin up.
if it really bothers you, ask him what he likes about you, get him to make a list, and you make one for him.
be confident, be happy, be yourself, or youll loose him, and youll blame it on your look
x
hmmm. just dont mind the girl. you are his girlfriend. so he is yours. also, you can tell your boyfriend by what you truly feel. tell him that it is not okay with you that he is kind of flirting with other girls.. if he loves you, he will stop. and reassure you of the things that bother you.
goodluck and take care. :) dont feel down.okay? you are lucky you have tried those already..
your not ugly hon your pretty :D
ive told him ive told him how threatened this particular girl makes me so next time i see him hes been talking to 3 diffeent ones!
they all make me so insecure
and we we've done SOME position changin and some toys.... btu not mch. it feels like alto of the time its jsut sex. nothing else.
i'll try and keep happy. cant promise... but i;ll try