If he's gentle and you're relaxed and suitably aroused it shouldn't be painful, even first time. Maybe a little discomfort as he first enters you, but maybe not even that. A lot of girls have already broken the hymen, without even noting it. while inserting a tampon or other general activities, or through masturbation or other forms of sex play.

If you're worried, why not start with something smaller, maybe your own finger, then you're in control.

When you do come to do it, make it a slow, relaxed and loving affair and you'll be fine.

u just have to relax and not stress up about it because if u do that youll be tight and it will hurt when he enters so just relax and let him finger u alot before u do it cause that will stretch u out some it hurt me alittle but not bad. and if u hear and feel a pop itll will be your cherry that means it popped thats totally ok and normal

relax. lol

my first time didnt hurt at all, no blood, no pain, best sex ever actually :p (maybe becuase i was so wet and horny hha)

just make sure youre really ready and horny

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Your first time will be uncomfortable no matter what if for no other reason that you will be nervous and its your first time so you will be tense. Some women don't experience pain, others do. Just try to be as relaxed as possible, make sure that you are ready and use protection!! If you are scared of how bad sex might feel, just imagine how bad child birth would feel.

Yep, pretty much what everyone else said. If you're a little dry it's okay, let him work on it ;) That's what foreplay is for!

Good luck

No it didnt hurt for me. It kinda hurt the next day but it wasnt too bad just a bit sore. just take it slow and relax.

my first never poped my cherry but my second did and i didn't even notice till after when i was bleeding and i was in some pain but we had really rough sex that day