Teen Sexuality Support Group

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SigraENFJ 12/26/2010

I'm going to hook up with a guy who is very well-endowed. 7+ inches. I'm really scared. I don't want to cry or yell out in pain or tell him to stop! Are there any positions or suggestions that will make this enjoyable, not painful?

drbeaker 12/28/2010

Tell him to be slow & gentle. Seven inches isn't that big, especially compared to a baby's head and you can easily accommodate that. Your anxiety about it is more likely to cause you pain due to tensing up. It may also hurt if he enters you roughly or before your body is ready.

If it hurts, or if you don't like it, say so. It's not a bad reflection on you. Why should you put up with something painful or that you don't want?

deleted_user 12/29/2010

Hi, first of all, try and take it slow, you are only 16, there's no rush. it his your first time? My firs time was with a guy who was about 8 inches... I will not lie, it did hurt, but not too much, he was very gentle and after a while it was pretty enjoyable. If you are this scared maybe it's because neither your body nor your mind, are completely ready for this. Think about it. If you go through with this, tell him to be slow and carefoul, you mark the pace...

deleted_user 01/07/2011

hey

DONT do deepstick - that kills me even with a normal sized cock x)

if youre on top you can control what happens, or doggy becuase thats my fave :p

tbh its not that big, just make sure youre nice and wet or even use extra lube and dont forget a condom :D
x

deleted_user 01/08/2011

drbeaker great advice.

Be on top. It may hurt at first, but once you orgasm you should loosen up and be fine. I've taken 9+inches

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