Teen Sexuality Support Group

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countrygirllovin2011 06/17/2012

I've been dating my crush for a month now, and I think Im really in love with him...there's one little problem...he's ready for sex. I keep trying to explain to him that I want to wait until we at least have a commitment before Im ready...but he keeps doing stuff that makes me feel pressured...please help

InSuL1nImP 06/17/2012

Tell him if he cannot respect you then it's over between you two and you are moving on. Simple.

deleted_user 06/19/2012

I agree with InSuL1nlmP, it's not worth it. If you give in when your not ready you will regret it for the rest of your life, my mum made the same mistake and she still regrets it, almost 30 years on :/ If he truly respects and loves you he'll understand. I know giving an ultimatum and sticking it out with someone you love is a terrifying thought, and I'm not saying it'll be easy, but it's the only way to give yourself the respect you deserve. I wish you all the luck in the world (: x

countrygirllovin2011 06/20/2012

Thanks guys...we sat down and talked about it, and agreed with eachother...but we both let our night night go a little far without thinking, and ended up having a pregnancy scare...I found out that im not pregnant, but we don't want that to happen until we're ready, so we decided to wait until we are both done with school

drbeaker 06/20/2012

Glad you could talk about it and resolve it.

Don't ever let anyone pressure you into sex 9or anything else for that matter). It's the thin end of the abuse wedge.

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