Teen Sexuality Support Group
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OMG! I have no idea what's going on. My bf and I have been having sex for a while, and I had tons of sex before him. Yesterday, we could not get it in. That's NEVER happened before. We tried and tried and it was like I totally sealed. After LOTS of work we finally got it in and he came in a matter of seconds. Any clue what's going on?
Any exposure to anything sexually alarming lately? Maybe heard/watched/experienced something sexually traumatic like sexual assault, rape, sexual abuse or something. Something on the news? Or just feeling really anxious/stressed around that time?
It could be vaginismus, which can be connected to pyschological factors.
The way your eyes reflexively shut when some one pretends to poke it? That is sometimes how your vaginal muscles will react and reflexively shut, without your control. See your Doc, but it could just be that. Things like relaxation and foreplay can help, when it's just more of a mental block. And your doc can recommend "exercises" to do to help if it happens again.