okay so this is a very private site for me. My profile has things that NONE of my friends or family know about. This is why I made this site, cuz there are things that i just can't talk to them about but i need somewhere to talk! None of my friends have an account so no one can see anything, and i even made my site private so only DS members can see my site. The other day... my boyfriend got on here. He even went to the extent of making a profile and searching for me on here...to me this was a HUGE invasion of my privacy, i feel betrayed. He said that all he did was look at 2 of my poems but part of me doesnt believe him... he also looked at my support groups too. He hasn't said anything but i know that he knows... just from looking at those two things not only did he find out that i still cut(as far as he knows i've only cut twice) and that i'm bisexual.. the worst of all tho was those 2 poems that he read, were about my ex boyfriend. He has really bad anxiety... and is always woried enough about me still being in love with my ex so that really didn't help.
I mean he got on the first place because i hadn't been talking about my Fibromyalgia and he wanted to see if there was anything he could find out about it... so its not like he was intentionally invading my privacy, and i mean now he feels really bad about it...
I made him delete his account and told him that if i EVER find out he did this again then its over and my trust in him is GONE. we're gonna hang out 2moro and i was gonna talk more to him about it. Mainly just find out wat he saw, and let him know why it bugged me so much, tell him how much my privacy and stuff means just crap like that. And then i told him that after we talk, it will be like nothing ever happened and we can move on
this was a hard decision for me tho... and idk if i made the right one... is it okay that i'm just gonna let it slide this one time? or should i do something else...?