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My 22 year old daughter is seriously bad news. She has decided to actively destroy my life because after paying for her community college, car, room and board, insurance-both medical and auto, clothing and nails, I declined to hand over $18000 for her to attend cosmetology school. Her response was to partner with my ex with whom I am currently battling in court. Both of them are unemployed and want me to pay their way in the world. I was served with a restraining order in early May with stipulations that I would have to surrender my gun and take domestic violence classes. I have never abused this child and she has claimed for YEARS that my ex abused her while I was at work. .
She fits every single criteria for a sociopath according to the DSM IV. I am sure this sounds crazy to you, but I am finally able to see her for the extremely dangerous, mentally ill person she is. She played on my guilt and insecurities as a mother to manipulate me and prevent my current clarity of mind.
She was cutting herself at age 15, abusing my middle daughter physically, bit my dad when he protected my middle daughter from being strangled by her and stole from the prestigious private high school she attended for which she was expelled. Conversations on social media demonstrate her instability and utter disregard for the lives or reputation of others. She was involved with a criminal at age 18 and I was forced to send her away to protect my younger children. When she resurfaced claiming this boy was hurting her, she was sent out of state for her own safety. As I only learned after SHE filed the restraining order against ME in early May of this year, she orchestrated a drive by shooting of my home while my younger children were present. Two shotgun blasts and nine 40 cal bullets ripped through my home that night. She has no remorse or empathy, cannot hold a job but its never her fault she gets fired, creates alternate persona for her lies, lies about everything from being beaten to my youngest daughter and her biological father being dead. She flies into violent rages and threatens self-harm, feels she is entitled to others belongings up to and including a friends expensive camera, my brothers jewelry and my deceased fathers money, assaults people verbally and physically, tortures animals for fun-she put my kitten in a box and sent him down the stairs repeatedly while laughing and dislocated the shoulder of a kitten she found. Vindictive revenge is her specialty if she feels wronged because she is never to blame. Refuses treatment because she is not the problem, everyone else is. She flits from relationship to relationship without thinking twice, she assaults her boyfriends/husband then plays poor me when they hit back. She usually has 3-4 boys going at the same time, playing them against each other. She has no friends, she ruins the friendship when they have nothing left she wants or can steal. No biological family left are willing to engage her. She laughs about almost killing my mother and any time the drive by shooting came up, it was about how upsetting that time was for her and I should comfort her because it was my fault she was beaten by the shooter. She has convinced my ex and his family to help her keep her 38 year old husbands 4 year old daughter away from the childs mother. In fact she married the older tattoo artist who only works for cash or prescription pain pills so that his ex-girlfriend could not serve her with a SECOND restraining order-the first one was last year and was later dropped. She has actively alienated my middle daughter from me with my ex's help.The two girls have said they want to kill me for money. The 22 year old said she wanted to bash my head in with a crystal vodka skull. She has NO remorse for any of this.
I am living in fear for my life, worried another shooting is coming at any time. I check under my car for brake fluid before I drive anywhere. I have panic attacks if my youngest child does not answer her phone immediately. I worry that she will harm my husband or daughter to cause me pain.
Does this sound familiar to anyone? Does anyone have any help for me? I do not recognize this 22 year old as the baby I birthed, but as an evil entity wearing her skin. I have to protect my family from her but I do not know how. Any help would be greatly appreciated.
She fits every single criteria for a sociopath according to the DSM IV. I am sure this sounds crazy to you, but I am finally able to see her for the extremely dangerous, mentally ill person she is. She played on my guilt and insecurities as a mother to manipulate me and prevent my current clarity of mind.
She was cutting herself at age 15, abusing my middle daughter physically, bit my dad when he protected my middle daughter from being strangled by her and stole from the prestigious private high school she attended for which she was expelled. Conversations on social media demonstrate her instability and utter disregard for the lives or reputation of others. She was involved with a criminal at age 18 and I was forced to send her away to protect my younger children. When she resurfaced claiming this boy was hurting her, she was sent out of state for her own safety. As I only learned after SHE filed the restraining order against ME in early May of this year, she orchestrated a drive by shooting of my home while my younger children were present. Two shotgun blasts and nine 40 cal bullets ripped through my home that night. She has no remorse or empathy, cannot hold a job but its never her fault she gets fired, creates alternate persona for her lies, lies about everything from being beaten to my youngest daughter and her biological father being dead. She flies into violent rages and threatens self-harm, feels she is entitled to others belongings up to and including a friends expensive camera, my brothers jewelry and my deceased fathers money, assaults people verbally and physically, tortures animals for fun-she put my kitten in a box and sent him down the stairs repeatedly while laughing and dislocated the shoulder of a kitten she found. Vindictive revenge is her specialty if she feels wronged because she is never to blame. Refuses treatment because she is not the problem, everyone else is. She flits from relationship to relationship without thinking twice, she assaults her boyfriends/husband then plays poor me when they hit back. She usually has 3-4 boys going at the same time, playing them against each other. She has no friends, she ruins the friendship when they have nothing left she wants or can steal. No biological family left are willing to engage her. She laughs about almost killing my mother and any time the drive by shooting came up, it was about how upsetting that time was for her and I should comfort her because it was my fault she was beaten by the shooter. She has convinced my ex and his family to help her keep her 38 year old husbands 4 year old daughter away from the childs mother. In fact she married the older tattoo artist who only works for cash or prescription pain pills so that his ex-girlfriend could not serve her with a SECOND restraining order-the first one was last year and was later dropped. She has actively alienated my middle daughter from me with my ex's help.The two girls have said they want to kill me for money. The 22 year old said she wanted to bash my head in with a crystal vodka skull. She has NO remorse for any of this.
I am living in fear for my life, worried another shooting is coming at any time. I check under my car for brake fluid before I drive anywhere. I have panic attacks if my youngest child does not answer her phone immediately. I worry that she will harm my husband or daughter to cause me pain.
Does this sound familiar to anyone? Does anyone have any help for me? I do not recognize this 22 year old as the baby I birthed, but as an evil entity wearing her skin. I have to protect my family from her but I do not know how. Any help would be greatly appreciated.
My son has been violent with me and of course accused me of everything that has gone wrong in his life. He lies to me constantly and has not empathy what so ever.
Recently I wrote him a letter telling him that I wanted nothing to do with him until he learns other ways of dealing with me and life in general. Some sociopaths can change or at least learn the "right" way to behave. Not all though.
I would think if you presented all the past actions she has instigated, he could do something to keep your daughter from knowing where you live.