Sounds like a great place. NOT! Can you hang out with your brother at times instead of walking around alone? Is there a decent spot for possible friends? Do you have any good possibilities for even part-time jobs until you find something better? Are you eating, sleeping, exercising decently? keep in touch and good luck.

Everyone living too close too everyone. Hostilities between people run rampant. Territorial primate attitude around these parts. Everyone walking the walk and talking the talk and full of crud. Like a hierarchy structure that chimpanzees have (alpha's and beta's etc.) and a structure not to dissimilar.

The relationship with my brother has been stretched. Losing my job as of no fault of my own. My brother expecting me to work 12-15hr days 6 days a week refurbishing his house. And like an exploitive employer threats, aggression, lies if you don't.....

I'm past the point of caring..... Need to get out of this situation.

I imagine when I do. and I'm back on my feet in due course that I will move away. And potentially sever ties with family up this way......

Yes what you are describing is exactly what I went through about a year ago. I lost my job and moved with my cousin to a new city that was very ghetto. The new job I had was not a very good one and was stressful. I would often come home and be in tears hoping it was a bad dream. I was stressed out and really unhappy. But just remember that this time in your life is only temporary. You have the time right now to think about what you want in your life and how to get back on your feet. We all have times where things go wrong and we feel like we are in a bad dream. But it will get better, Once you get things back in order you will be able to get a new job in a new place and then get a place to live on your own. Just be patient and give it time. Try to look for the hidden blessings in the situation you are in now. That's what I did. I like that I was in the country when I lived with my cousin so I had fresh air. I had more money to buy things I liked since we were sharing the rent. And she had a dog that I could love and enjoy and not have to clean up after haha. Simple things like that will make things bearable until things change. I wish you the best! Blessings to you :)

Thanks. Gives me a little extra hope to hear it from someone else in an ever negative/hostile situation. The experience will no doubt be unpleasant experience throughout. Though when I come out the other end and it is finally over. I will be mentally tougher and supposedly a stronger person.

On another note my brothers wife who despises me. She and my so brother made a meson the cooker surface and in the sink. And I had failed to spot a couple of specs of coffee on the kitchen counter top and clean the fat grease that those two had dirtied the oven cooker with.
Next thing I know I'm getting shouted at.

If it were up to my brothers wife. She had her way she would have me living out on the street. I will not say this though. Obvious why. The only thing keeping her from doing so is my brother. Talk about family supposed to be close and help each other out when needed. Look out for each other.

Know the old saying ''the only person you can truly rely on is your self''