I don't post much at all but with the stress today I feel I need to. I am recovering from surgery from 2.5 weeks ago. I am okay but not back to normal of course . Can't lift or carry heavy items yet which is not sitting well with the family. Any way I depend on my family to drive me to the doctors or the store. Since we had lost phone,tv and internet last night due to a storm I decided to try to de-clutter a little in my craft room, paper items and such. Planned on working in there today too but was talking to my daughter and watching a movie with her when a disagreement came up and she said she wished I was dead. Well I was shocked, got up and decided if that is how she feels then movie time was done for me because obviously I don't need to spend time with some one who feels this way. I decide to go to work in my room again. She starts texting me so I turn the phone off. Then she messes with the cable so I don't pay any attention to it both times. Then she comes to my room and starts arguing with me. I ask her to leave several times. She just keeps coming in or pushing against the door I am holding closed. Of course I get hurt but she still continue. So I go downstairs to get away from her and she follows me. Then I grab my keys and purse and head for my car. She follows me out there and tries to stop me. I manage to leave. So here I sit behind a building up the street because driving is painful. Daughter by the way is 22 years old is meeting her boyfriend in an hour so I will try to get back home then. Not sure how much more I can take. My husband was/is at work and I did call him but he can't or won't do any thing. I just do not know why my family is like this. It so seems the more I do the more they expect. The wish I was dead comment brought tears to my eyes and I think this has forever changed my relationship with my daughter and maybe even my husband. So how do others handle hurtful adult kids and spouses who allow this kind of behavior which by the way is ongoing?