Stress Management Support Group
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Sooo I'm back to work after an emergency delivery of my son, 2 months early and ended up in the NICU...anyways I've been back to work for 4 weeks now, I was available and worked from home a little during my 12 week leave...and I just don't feel like I belong...I was worried about this happening before I left....everyone said I was crazy....look now!
All my coworkers kind of took over my job since it was an emergency...I thought I had close to 2 months to train them all . I asked my boss if I was still doing my job and taking all my duties back and she said yes. So I went to the main co worker that did my job while I was gone and told her thank you and that I was ready to transition back. She said "what duties do you want back?" I told her that I wanted all of them. She said "Well I really like doing your job..." I said so do I, that's why I want it back and I :) smiled! So I started my duties again...well over the last few weeks it seems as though I don't exist in the office. Everyone goes to her to get things done, they don't ask me and she goes ahead and takes care of it, when she should be bringing it to me....I'm so frustrated...The thing is I love my job...just not the people. It is hard to want to be wanted and now I just feel like a fly on the wall. I just need to vent...ideas are welcomed, but your talking to someone who has tried sonic drinks, christmas gifts, food, leave early from work without doc'd pay. THANKS!
All my coworkers kind of took over my job since it was an emergency...I thought I had close to 2 months to train them all . I asked my boss if I was still doing my job and taking all my duties back and she said yes. So I went to the main co worker that did my job while I was gone and told her thank you and that I was ready to transition back. She said "what duties do you want back?" I told her that I wanted all of them. She said "Well I really like doing your job..." I said so do I, that's why I want it back and I :) smiled! So I started my duties again...well over the last few weeks it seems as though I don't exist in the office. Everyone goes to her to get things done, they don't ask me and she goes ahead and takes care of it, when she should be bringing it to me....I'm so frustrated...The thing is I love my job...just not the people. It is hard to want to be wanted and now I just feel like a fly on the wall. I just need to vent...ideas are welcomed, but your talking to someone who has tried sonic drinks, christmas gifts, food, leave early from work without doc'd pay. THANKS!
It just takes time to transition back in. If you don't want this person doing your job when you own it, then don't allow her.