Stillbirth Support Group

This community is dedicated to those who have been impacted by a stillbirth. A stillbirth occurs when a fetus which has died in the uterus, during labor, or during delivery exits a woman's body. For help and support, share your experiences and learn how others coped. Don't forget that you are not alone.

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braysmommy 01/26/2017

I gave birth to my sleeping boy this week at 33 weeks and 3 days. He was moving perfectly all morning, then just stopped. His heart stopped. Going through labor knowing he was not alive was the hardest thing I've ever done. My pregnancy was perfect and uncomplicated, and there's no answer as to what happened to my baby boy. I'm empty, broken, hurting, and so lost. I stumbled upon this group and feel comfort in knowing I'm not alone. I never thought I'd be here.

BabyV 01/26/2017

I'm so sorry for your loss. I swear I log on praying there's not a new post!!! This is something that is not wished on anybody. God bless you.

braysmommy 01/27/2017

Thank you.

meganann 01/27/2017

I'm so sorry for your loss. It's been 9 months now since I lost my baby and it still seems so unreal. The depression is getting slightly better but I still struggle. Feel free to message me personally if you ever need someone to talk to.

kellyann 01/28/2017

I am so sorry for your loss. Losing a child is something no one should have to go through. It's been almost ten months since my son was born still at 36 weeks. giving birth knowing your beautiful child is not alive is unthinkable and something that no one can understand unless they have been through it. Know that you are an incredibly strong person.
I too have just stumbled upon this support group tonight and decided to join, not sure what to even do with it.

MissingMyAngel24 01/29/2017

Hello, I'm sorry for everyone's losses. To braysmommy, I know what you mean, I never thought I would suddenly be apart of this group. My whole life changed in an instant and it will never be the same. I lost my baby at 33 weeks and 6 days.

braysmommy 01/30/2017

Did any of you have answers as to why you lost your little ones? It's killing me to keep hearing "well sometimes this just happens" my little boy was perfect, my pregnancy was good. It's just so senseless. This pain is beyond devastating. I've never hurt so much.

AMCody10 01/31/2017

I lost my daughter due to a fetal haemorrhaging. My placenta and baby looked fine but they did a certain blood test on me called a KB test where they found a critically high amount of my baby's blood mixed in with mine. Usually this happens when pregnant women are in a car accident or possibly fall, since neither of those happened to me we'll never know why the haemorrhaging occurred. I've heard it being compared to a "lightening strike" in that it rarely happens, which doesn't make it any less painful :(

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