Stillbirth Support Group

This community is dedicated to those who have been impacted by a stillbirth. A stillbirth occurs when a fetus which has died in the uterus, during labor, or during delivery exits a woman's body. For help and support, share your experiences and learn how others coped. Don't forget that you are not alone.

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my little angel i miss you so much

Antoi
Antoi
It has being 12 weeks tomorrow since my baby boy has being taken from us not a day goes by that I don't miss him so much if I could turn back time I wonder would there have being anything that we could have done to prevent such a tragedy he died due to a cord accident it was wrapped around his neck tightly and it was also caught around his shoulder and hand. Missing you terribly my little angel my beautiful boy Ben xxx
Marthar1201
Marthar1201
I understand what your are going through..... and like my husband would say EVERY SINGLE PREGNANCY SHOULD BE CONCIDERED HIGH RISK..... because here we are many of us with perfect pregnancies.... and yet our babies die some how in our womb. I was told now that I am trying to conceive again and had a stillbirth... I am consider high risk.... and more testing would be done if I do get pregnant again......... if every pregnancy was considered high risk..... we could possible had enjoyed having our babies a live today.... :0(
Antoi
Antoi
I totally agree with your husband if we were all high risk pregnancies our little angels would probably be here with us today and that's very hard to deal with. I too was told that I would be a high risk as we are ttc aswell they even went trough a plan for me which gives me some hope but at the same time a little anger why couldn't they do this the first time.

I do believe that we have to put our trust in god now and for some reaon he had a different plan for our babies, I just hope that he gives us our rainbow babies soon as we truly deserve them.
Thurman421
Thurman421
I feel ya honey! Eliminate these phrases from your vocabulary... "could've, should've, would've, what if, if only"!!! They will destroy you. We would all go back and do things differently if given a chance. I know whatI should've done... Fact is our babies are angels. Death is so finite. We are still alive! Even though sometimes we wish we weren't. I'm not a holy-rollin', Jesus freak, but I believe my son is in heaven and I will hold him someday. Until then...I have a purpose, and so do all of you.

I love you all. Big hugs and comfort. Wishing rainbows...