I don't have an issue. I am 2 months out from the loss of my son and I have many questions about ttc that I have yet to really ask. I am not sure I am ready quite yet, but would like to know what others are going through, trying, not trying...what the emotional impact is and even what if any physical impact there is. I was going to go to the ttc group, but again, don't feel like I am ready to go there yet. So for me...ask and share away! :)

Wishing you sticky rainbow baby dust!

I'm not trying yet. My c-section was just over 4 months ago, so I don't think it would be safe. The posts don't bother me at this point. I've just for the first time actually been hopeful, and not scared, about another pregnancy.

The first 3 months I wasn't ready to discuss it seriously. And, actually, in my first month or 2 out I tried to avoid areas online where there was lots of TTC-talk - however, I was curious. I was so curious I read a few others' stories. I read how hard it is - how the next pregnancy will be filled with anxiety and bittersweet memories. That scared the curiosity out of me and I stayed away from it again. Not until just recently have I started to look around the corner.

I hope we can look to TTC soon. I really do want a baby in my arms, badly. It won't fill the hole in my heart that I have for her - maybe it will help my heart to expand just a little larger.

When I first joined the group, I wasn't even allowed to conceive yet. But seeing posts about TTC or pregnancy or rainbows didn't bother me. I actually wish there were a bit more posts with people sharing BFP or rainbow arrival news because it adds some positivity to the group and gives some people hope. I say post away, but I do realize that newer members may feel quite differently so understand why you're asking. It's very considerate of you.

It doesn't bother me, but I'm one of those who is very actively TTC.

I may actually actually be expecting my rainbow right now from IVF.

I think that rainbows give us all hope, but I can see how it can make some sad.

I am one of those ttc women its only been 2 months for me (since I lost my angel ) we started last month but as I comer closer to af I have to admit i kinda hope she shows knowing my family wont support me hurts ( because they care they worry about me) but I think I should wait a little longer I don't think I'm as ready as I once thought. This journey we face is so hard we all want our babies but getting them isn't as easy as we blissfully once thought. I wish i could go back to the days when I was ignorant to all this but sadly icant and when we diver to that point it will be a bitter sweet day. I pray for us daily ((hugs)) this is a long trying road for all of us. but I don't get upset when ppl post I kno it gives me hope. much love to you all

I lost my son 5 1/2 weeks ago and I enjoy reading about women TTC after a stillbirth..it definitely gives me some hope when I see other women on here are pregnant or have had a healthy pregnancy after their loss and now have a healthy baby. I definitely can't wait to TTC again but I know being pregnant will not replace the baby I lost but like AngelEleanor said maybe it will help my heart to expand a little larger. I even feel a little guilty for wanting to TTC already.

I think that it is a postive thing - well it was for me! In the middle of all that darkness and despair their were women just like me, who had gone through what i had been through and had found the strength to try for another baby. It gave me hope that one day i would be that brave and strong. I have celebrated the conception and birth of every rainbow and have bitterly morned the new angels that have joined mine, even more so if the angel was the hoped for rainbow.
Now I am there - I have found the strength with the help of you my sisters to get to the point where i too am ready to try for my rainbow. Together we anxiously wait each months outcome and question what can be done to improve our chances next time.... and hopefully we help inspire hope and belief in the next sister that joins our group, so that they can also move towards the rainbow.

My husband has told me that he doesn't want to TTC anymore. We tried for a while after our twins were stillborn, but he's frustrated and doesn't want to try (it took us 3 years to get pregnant with the munchkins). I still do, but, as we all know, in this one no makes the other yes null and void.
It does hurt a bit to know that others are getting there rainbows, but I will forever only have children in Heaven. That being said, I also think that every woman on here should have their rainbows if she wants one (Lord knows we've all suffered enough and deserve a baby in our arms). If the posts begin to bother, I simply won't view the ones labeled TTC or rainbow. So, I think if you title your posts appropriately, it shouldn't be a problem for anyone.

I have started to think about this too. The thought of being pregnant terrifies me, but I know I want to have another baby. I can't decide if I want to be pregnant now just because I'm missing my Annie or if I truly am ready for another baby (is that ever possible??), but you posted a good question. I'm not offended at all with questions or discussing this. I too have questions about all of this . . . Are we considered high risk this time around? Are you going to buy a doppler to listen to the heart beat (I have looekd into this already!!)? How do we find a balance of making sure everything is okay yet staying calm at the same time?? Again, thanks for asking . . . I am just as curious are you!

I also don't mind the TTC discussions. They are wonderful and full of hope when we are missing our babies so much! I'm in the same boat where I really want a baby right now, but most days I just want Mila, not another baby. It's been four months since she was stillborn and some days I can't wait to move forward. Other days, I want to just grieve and focus on honoring her any way I can. After delivery I had to have a partial hysterectomy so I can't conceive again, but we are seriously considering surrogacy or adoption. I just can't accept that this is it for us. We have four year old twins and my son just said last night, "Mommy, if you have another baby, then I can be a big brother!" It broke my heart. How can we not give them the baby they've been waiting for! Sending rainbow dust to all of those TTC!