Stillbirth Support Group
This community is dedicated to those who have been impacted by a stillbirth. A stillbirth occurs when a fetus which has died in the uterus, during labor, or during delivery exits a woman's body. For help and support, share your experiences and learn how others coped. Don't forget that you are not alone.
SOO, i had a fun 11 days with my POP's. I was put on these birth control pills after my dr. Discovered that I have a blood clotting disorder, which is what killed my little Sophia last September. I have been PMSing for 11 DAYS!! With horrible cramps, and I spotted and bled alll of last month. So my doctor says my options are to deal with this garbage every month (no way), to use condoms, or get an IUD.
I know that if I try to get my bf to use condoms it will not work out because he (like all men), hate them. And I don't want to use IUD's because I want to get pregnant this year. But I want to wait awhile before I do it, at least until June after I have all my dental work done so I don't endanger my rainbow.
I just wanted to share. This sucks and I hate my OB-GYN and I hate that I don't have a 7 month old baby or a rainbow and my bf acts like I'm crazy if I even say I want to get pregnant later this summer, I'm not even pressuring him for right now!! And I also hate that I feel like I have no power over my own reproductive system, I have to wait 4ever for permission to do something that might just save my sanity, like having my rainbow.
you know what I mean?! ; )
I know that if I try to get my bf to use condoms it will not work out because he (like all men), hate them. And I don't want to use IUD's because I want to get pregnant this year. But I want to wait awhile before I do it, at least until June after I have all my dental work done so I don't endanger my rainbow.
I just wanted to share. This sucks and I hate my OB-GYN and I hate that I don't have a 7 month old baby or a rainbow and my bf acts like I'm crazy if I even say I want to get pregnant later this summer, I'm not even pressuring him for right now!! And I also hate that I feel like I have no power over my own reproductive system, I have to wait 4ever for permission to do something that might just save my sanity, like having my rainbow.
you know what I mean?! ; )
So...I understand how frustrating our reproductive systems are. You're not alone.
I hope your bf comes around. Hope for a rainbow seems to be the only thing keeping me going. Keep us posted, your in my thoughts!
~Jennifer~
I pray that you will do what is best for you. I hate to say this but you can always get another man. I'm giving my husband a couple more months and then my birthday present to myself and to Annaya will be a baby.
Hugs!!!
N.