Stillbirth Support Group
This community is dedicated to those who have been impacted by a stillbirth. A stillbirth occurs when a fetus which has died in the uterus, during labor, or during delivery exits a woman's body. For help and support, share your experiences and learn how others coped. Don't forget that you are not alone.
I just can't stop thinking about the time that I lost my son @ 34 weeks due to preeclampsia. It was very very hard to believe that I am a mother without any child. I have many questions with no answer I don't know why its all happened to me but I know 'GOD has a reason'. its been 5 months but the whole-things are round through my mind again and again. my husband want to ttc again I also need a baby to fill my empty arms but I extremely scared every moment that I might lose another baby.
GOD please bless me with children?!
GOD please bless me with children?!
fuzzypeach9
I hope you are blessed with children too. Losing a baby is such a difficult and painful thing to endure. The fear you feel during a subsequent pregnancy is normal and can be intense. Unfortunately, in this group we all know that we are not immune to loss and that anything can happen to our precious babies, however , to get to the point where we can feel that joy of holding a live baby in our arms we have to go through the fear and anxiety of that pregnancy, if that is a possibility.You need to just do what feels right to you. I'm speaking from experience of both a loss and a rainbow pregnancy. My beautiful Jane would have turned 13 in 11 days time and my rainbow baby girl will be 12 tomorrow. Best wishes, you are in my thoughts.
jaimeclark
I am in the same place....after 2 miscarriages and an early stillbirth just last month....I've never felt so empty and alone. I need a happy ending.
Rochelle43
I know that empty arms feeling. It's so hard to describe, but those of us who have experienced such traumatic losses know. I am thinking of you and hoping for a true blessing to be sent your way.
princessevelyn
I am truly sorry for your loss. I lost my Evelyn last year in October. I hope and pray that God will bless you again. It's been 10 months for me and there are still moments I break down. There's always something that will trigger my emotions. All you can do is take it moment by moment, day by day. I keep telling myself the same.
phoenixfel
My first thought is that you may find some comfort with a Molly Bear. It's a weighted teddy bear customized to the exact weight of the child that was lost, with the goal of providing some relief for that desire to hold the child in one's arms. There isn't a charge for them, but the site accepts donations to keep going. www.mollybears.com. It was founded by another mother of an angel. Her story can be found on the site. It's a brilliant idea. Unfortunately, due to a backlog of orders and the fact that all the labor is from volunteers, it currently takes 6 months to get one. Also, they only take orders one day a month. My girlfriend and I plan to get one for the son we recently lost. I want her to have one sooner, though, and I'm trying to make one of my own in the meantime. I'm sorry for your loss. I hope you find this helpful, even if just a little.
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