Stillbirth Support Group
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Hey everyone, I haven't been on in awhile. However...
Recently my sister did something I consider waaayy over the line. I'll give you the short version:
She's a mean drunk. She came to my house slammed half a bottle of vodka, cried in my yard, and tried to take her 2 toddlers on a bus at 10pm w/ no coats while she was drunk. My bf and me tried to get her to get in our car so we could take her home we were each holding a kid and trying to tell her we were gna put them in the car seats so we could take them home. She grabbed my bf by the throat and accused us of stealing her kids. Then as she was walking away she yelled back, "just cause you can't have any kids of your own doesn't mean you can have mine!"
I'm just so freaking sick of her saying ignorant crap about my kid, I swear I want to rip her face off whenever she mentions Sophia because she only says her name to garner sympathy from ppl that she lost a niece, but she never once cried or hugged me after I lost her.
That's not even the tip of the iceberg with her... but I digress.
Has anyone else had to deal with people saying cruel or ignorant stuff about their angel?
Recently my sister did something I consider waaayy over the line. I'll give you the short version:
She's a mean drunk. She came to my house slammed half a bottle of vodka, cried in my yard, and tried to take her 2 toddlers on a bus at 10pm w/ no coats while she was drunk. My bf and me tried to get her to get in our car so we could take her home we were each holding a kid and trying to tell her we were gna put them in the car seats so we could take them home. She grabbed my bf by the throat and accused us of stealing her kids. Then as she was walking away she yelled back, "just cause you can't have any kids of your own doesn't mean you can have mine!"
I'm just so freaking sick of her saying ignorant crap about my kid, I swear I want to rip her face off whenever she mentions Sophia because she only says her name to garner sympathy from ppl that she lost a niece, but she never once cried or hugged me after I lost her.
That's not even the tip of the iceberg with her... but I digress.
Has anyone else had to deal with people saying cruel or ignorant stuff about their angel?
This person will never be allowed in our home nor will he ever be allowed around our new rainbow son Deklan who is now 5 weeks old. Family members seem to be the worst offenders as far as terrible things being said goes.
I snapped on her. She doesn't take care of her 4 kids as it is, yet she keeps having more. I went pretty low with what I said back to her. And She cried and made it seem like it was all my fault. I don't feel bad. And it made me feel better. I haven't spoken to her since my daughter passed. And I hadn't really spoken to her in about 3 years even before that.