Stillbirth Support Group
This community is dedicated to those who have been impacted by a stillbirth. A stillbirth occurs when a fetus which has died in the uterus, during labor, or during delivery exits a woman's body. For help and support, share your experiences and learn how others coped. Don't forget that you are not alone.
My husband and I are now ttc. I was searching some websites ans in some of them people are able to comment. Why why did i have to see this one comment. A young girl posted that she has gone through 8 abortions because she is not ready to be a mother. Many of us wanted our babies. And its not fair that this young girlgets pregnant for not taking care of herself..... and basically killing all this babies. . .. I felt anger reading that comment. I cry because I know how much I love my son Eli..... he truly was wanted.... and itd not fair hr is not here with me :0(
Antoi
I know your pain while I was waiting to have our boy a young girl was brought in who was on drugs to have her baby she was so out of it, I dont get why people like that should be given the gift of having a child with no care in the world of the health of their baby, it did make me really angry as the midwives said that they see it all the time here are we having so much love for our little ones and it to be taken away from us and here are these women who dont have a care in the world it really makes me angry once again Martha its really not fair hopefully we will be blessed with our rainbow babies soon xx
Marthar1201
That's crazy...... I keep telling my self.... there is a purpose for all of us in this world..... I don't know what their purpose in this life is, but I don't think the babies should be the ones suffering because of their mother's dumb mistakes..... I pray every night that one day I get to see me son again...... and to conceive again........
Thurman421
I know what you mean. While DH and I were TTC for Lochlan my best friend got pregnant unexpectedly. She had an abortion despite all I had to say. She and baby daddy had been together 3 years and were planning to marry. To this day I don't understand why she did it(other than just freaking out). When Lochlan died, she wanted to act like she knew what it is like to lose a baby. I couldn't speak to her for months. It's not same thing. She now tells me they want a baby. I told her it isn't that easy... But "we got pregnant before without even trying". I say...welcome to the TTC boat. How many times in your life have you had unprotected sex? How many times have you been pregnant? Do the math. Its a blessing to have a baby!
Marthar1201
What a shame...... no it was her choice to end up the baby's life.... Us we wanted them....we had plans with them.... we waited soooo patiently for their due dates and they were taken from us.... :0(.....and thats what angers me sooo much....why why are they given the opportunity to conceive.... i tried once already and didnt get pregnant..... :0( .... i miss my son so much and it hurts that dumb girls are out there having all these abortions
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