okay ladies lookin for some help here...kinda got myself into somethin big and well with ur help we can make this really big...i was talkin with a member of the catholic/christian church and talked about what this month was for and about oct 15th being dedicated as infant loss day. well he is the prolife leader at church and is goin to petition tomorrow that i speak next week on behalf of us mothers and break the silence. they want to put out a display table with stories from people who have gone thru this loss and how they learned to go on. i agreed to do this and told him i was sure ladies from my groups would love to help...he then informes me that his church has over 1500 families..i will be speaking to over a thousand people next sunday..lol..had no idea his church was that big..anyhow his wife and i are goin to spend next week getting this together. i guess this is the part i should add...the part that shows the strength it will take to do this, but i will do anything for my son. his wife and i were pregnant together. our boys were due 5 days apart from eachother. this will be the first time i have met her son who is the exact age Max would be right now. okay, so what i am asking is if anyone would like to share their story of their loss or losses to be put on posters to hang the day i speak for them. any groups to add to panflet to hand out, just any suggestions on what to do to help break the silence and help families out there.