Stillbirth Support Group
This community is dedicated to those who have been impacted by a stillbirth. A stillbirth occurs when a fetus which has died in the uterus, during labor, or during delivery exits a woman's body. For help and support, share your experiences and learn how others coped. Don't forget that you are not alone.
If my baby girl was here, she would be potty training by now. My boyfriend would not be ready to walk out on me, and I would not cry every mothers day. My boyfriend would not have flash backs of her beautiful face bruised purple all day at work, and I would not cry myself to sleep. If she were here, we would be a family, and not two fractured people clinging onto the memory of a family that should have been. If she were here I would have my motivation, but as it stands I see no reason to work so hard if I can never have a baby clinging to me. Sorry girls, had to post that, I need some support here. Love y'all
I understand what your going through. There are months when I can't seem to get over the "what should have been." Especially now that my baby would be older too. I met somebody the other day at a cookout that had a daughter that was born 2 weeks after my son. I just watched her the whole time trying to imagine my son being that big and walking and slobbering all over food. I held her and tried to imagine him being that heavy. And it really breaks my heart when my oldest son (whose 8) asks me if we can adopt a child so that he'll have somebody to play with here. He acknowledges his brother but he wants a brother or sister here too. And it doesn't help at all that getting pregnant isn't easy for us. I'm so sorry your in a valley sweet lady. Hugs and love, Jessie
And even though i am one of the "lucky" ones and have my rainbow growing inside me, it doesnt really help. Maybe when she is here things will start changing... as my mom said "maybe when she is safely here we can remember how to start living again"
HUGS HON!! You are never alone!