Here is the issue, I met my DH 8 years ago, the first time I met the BM she locked herself in a room and refuse to met me. That has been the way it has been since, she is kind when I am there, but as soon as I turn around she talks trash about me. My SD called me Mom a few times and BM flipped her lid, of course. I have taken a backseat role when it comes to SD, my H and I talk in private I offer my opinion and he makes the choice. I don't push SD into anytype of conversions, but do let her know that I love her and think of her as my own and if she ever need someone to talk to I would not judge her. The real kicker is lately the BM has been pushing for info on me for some reason that is beyond me. I have felt like I have had a spy in my home and I have to question the SD motives as to why she is asking me personal questions that have never ben asked before. Any comment I make goes right back to BM and then to my H as Your wife is a terrible person. Please keep in mind that I go out of my way not to even have the BM name come out of my mouth for this very reason. My question here is why would someone want to invole a child in this stupid game? Aren't we all adluts here, are we trying to co-parent a child and should we put them above our own selfish needs and wants? Maybe that is just my way of thinking but I don't know.
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