I am new to this site but I am so glad I found it. I have been with my husband for about 4 yrs we recently got married and it seem like it went down hill from there. We have one child together and 4 from before the marriage ( 19 ur old boy, 23 yr old girl, 17 yr old girl and a 14 yr old along with out 1 yr old which is ours together) we don’t see or hear from the two youngest girls only when they need something. The oldest girl in in nursing school and we see her maybe twice a month but she calls at least 2-3 times to talk to the baby boy. Now let me get to this 19yr old I call him Baby Jesus because I’m his dads eyes he does no wrong. When he was in high school we all moved in together and he was ok at first but then he became this disrespectful, lazy person that you could not tell anything too. Me and my husband would fuss all the time about him and we never got any where. I don’t really care for the oldest son mom I call her “Mary” because she is right about everything with my husband. We recently had a huge fuss because baby Jesus has not been to class for a little over two weeks because he was in NOLA for Mardi Gras. He is a weed head and he brings home no so good grades. I told my husband that they should make him withdraw from school because it was costing too much money for him to play around and do nothing. Well my husband feels as tho I have no say so in what goes on with baby Jesus and I need to stay in my place. He also feels that I am a negative and toxic person. But I am the same person who do for all the kids and make sure they all have what they need when he doesn’t have or when he just forgets. I am at a point that I wish I had a magic wand to make baby Jesus disappear or make him act like he has some sense. Signed stepmom living in hell..