Spouses of Transgender Community Group

Being transgender it's not easy but neither for their spouses. This group is created with the intention of helping and getting to know others that are in. the same situation or to just educate those that are on the other side of the fence and want to know how does it feel or how would it feel to be a spouse of a transgender person. The main objective of this group is...

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awife 05/08/2018

I have a long drive to and from work and some days (like today), I find myself distracted on the drive home as my mind wanders to all the what if’s. Tonight I was nearly in tears by the time I got home... but then I took a deep breath and said to myself “what’s really wrong?” let me count the ways:

My job bores me to the core

My kids are a year away from heading to college

Im menopausal

Oh, and my husband of 23 years would rather present as female.

Other than that. Life is peachy!

Sometimes you have to laugh so you don’t cry!

Take care of yourselves, friends!

Sylph 05/09/2018

I understand! I too sometimes just have to laugh. There are other things going on in our lives which most people would see as huge problems, but the trans thing really surpasses everything...

Take care

gallinarosa 05/09/2018

The car is the worst! Sometimes my mind starts spinning so much in the car that I forget where I am going! I think I am there with you on most of those except my kids are a couple of years younger and puberty is driving me nuts.

Laugh... cry... do both at the same time :)

Cora 05/11/2018

It's a lot to handle! So much change at the same time! *hugs*

howcani 05/14/2018

I can relate, some days driving home I have to
Pull over and cry. My therapist is probably making a fortune off my insurance (Lol).

Sometimes I feel like I have to hold my breath to walk through my door.

Be strong, you’ll be just peachy!

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