Spouses of Transgender Community Group

Being transgender it's not easy but neither for their spouses. This group is created with the intention of helping and getting to know others that are in. the same situation or to just educate those that are on the other side of the fence and want to know how does it feel or how would it feel to be a spouse of a transgender person. The main objective of this group is...

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Wanttolovehim 10/07/2018

4 1/2 years ago he tells me he likes to dress in womens clothes once in a while. Now he does it all the time. But this week I found him on a meet up site look for someone to meet up with and do the thing and sending them pictures of his penis all proud of it. But he still us tuckung and wanting to be a women. Does he really think when he finds one and they find out what he is they will still want to do him.

Cora 10/07/2018

I dunno some people like to have sex with women with penises. Not me, but some people!

*hugs*

17whoaminow 10/07/2018

My spouse keeps telling me that men have fetishes for being with transgendered women. I'm like Cora - Not me.

Wow, what hits me is the trust issue. That's actually scary.

lostinDSM 10/08/2018

Transgender or not looking for someone outside your marriage is a breach of trust. Unless you have an open relationship.
But like others said some are into transgender women.

1newstart 10/09/2018

Are you okay with him being on meet up sites? Do y'all have an open marriage? It is still cheating even if it isn't with another woman. I have heard several people in our situation say they have moved into this sort of relationship and both have found new partners while still being married and everyone is okay with it. If that is y'all, then, you know, whatever works. However, if this isn't your arrangement, you have some decisions to make.

I know you want to love him and that you want him to be happy, but remember........ You are not required to set yourself on fire in order to keep someone else warm.

Please, please, please do not sacrifice your happiness and wellness for his. You are worth more than that.

Cora 10/14/2018

"You are not required to set yourself on fire in order to keep someone else warm."

Oh this is a good quote!

1newstart 10/15/2018

I wish I could take credit for it, Cora, but I can't. I have seen it around, but I do love it and try to remember it when I feel myself starting to totally abandon me (and my needs and desires) for the sake of someone else's. And I don't mean making just little compromises here and there. I'm talking about something that I know will make me unhappy long term.

But yeah, I wish I knew who to credit for the quote.

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