So I found out a few months ago that my boyfriend that I've been with for a while wants to be a woman He's cross dress here and there and I was okay with it because if felt like a  close best friend but I had my boyfriend right beside me the whole time. Now all of a sudden he is going to therapy and wanting to start I'm taking hormones everything has gone so fast within the past 3 months that I don't know how to cope with it because I do love him and every time I look at him I smile and I think he's so handsome and all that but I don't know if I can be with a woman. when he cross dresses and puts on makeup he looks different and it hurts to know that the person I love is someone different. he says he's not going to change that he's the same person just going to be in a different body but he has changed already and started acting a lot different. He tells me that if I love him I could even love him after all of it and  that it's what you love about someone's personality that truly counts and to be honest that's not how I think and it hurts every time he says this.all I've been trying to do is be supportive and help him out through whatever he needs or wants but even our sex life has gone outside the door he only wants to have sex when he's dressed up and feeling himself but when he is has normal self I have to tell him or else we won't be sexually intimate. I want him to be Happy I want me to be happy and we've just been fighting since the day he told me how can you love somebody so much and it's this hard to cope with what they want