, , , he's already planning on moving the skank in! She already has boxes there and she's making herself quite at home! My son who's 21 is so upset over all this crap. He won't talk about it much to me. He's pissed and upset at his dad. He talks a little to his girlfriend but I'm really concerned about him. He's holding too much in and I'm afraid he's gonna explode! He's pretty much moved in with his girlfriend - his clothes are there and most of his belongings but he can't seem to make the final move out of the house. He told his girlfriend that that's his "home" and he doesn't really want to leave. In the meantime his ahole father is just thinking of himself and doing what he damn well pleases. We were together 29 freaking years and he is acting as though those 29 years didn't even happen. Talk about devastating! I am beyond devastated. I just can't believe he's doing this and acting this way. I don't understand what's going on in his head. I can't stop thinking about all our years together and he's just living it up with this skank pig and acting like a teenager. How do I deal with this and try to get on with my life and help my son get through this too? I'm totally lost!