After going to my first meeting, and then getting up the courage to tell h I went, one of his many responses was something along the lines of: if you keep going to these, I am probably going to backlash on you and start getting into porn and sex way more than I do now... so think about if you really want that to happen.
I am trying to ignore that comment, not let it hook me... and realize that he is going to do whatever he's going to do anyway...
but has anyone else been faced with that threat? Any suggestions on responses other than doing my best NOT to respond?
Good for you. It sounds like you're on the right track. And yes, it takes a while to get past the confusion and hurt when we love someone who's a jerk. But, once you get it....you get it.