spouses and illegitimate children Community Group
Dealing with your spouse not only having an affair but a child as a result and how it affects your day to day life and the lives of your children.
We stopped all contact with MIL since February when after my miscarriage she decided she had to contact OW to part of OC's life.
We blocked her on all social media but her page is open, so I do check hers sometimes to be nosey
When she posts pics of the family (like my SIL, the grandkids, etc) she always tags all the family in the pictures. Of course my H and I used to be included, but not since we've blocked her.
Well I just noticed she's started tagging OW in the pictures! I'm shocked!
Just a few weeks ago she was texting my H how much she misses him and loves him and just wish he'd talk to her again...and then she texted me on my birthday to say Happy Birthday & Easter (it was on Easter this year). We both ignored her. But for her to tag this whore who has never even met the family in a video of my younger SIL singing a solo in a concert...I just can't even believe it. I haven't said a word to her since all of this went down (My H was the one that told her off). I'm not going to say anything...but this makes me want to contact her. She doesn't even understand what she's doing and how humiliating this is. Even if she wants to claim OC as family...OW will never be family so why are you tagging her in videos of people she's never even met!!! ugh
I just needed to vent. I wonder if she's mad we sent an invitation for my SIL to come to our son's 5th bday party at the end of the month to her house and she's not invited.
UGH...every time something like this happens I'm reminded how much I hate this situation and hope only the worst for OW.
We blocked her on all social media but her page is open, so I do check hers sometimes to be nosey
When she posts pics of the family (like my SIL, the grandkids, etc) she always tags all the family in the pictures. Of course my H and I used to be included, but not since we've blocked her.
Well I just noticed she's started tagging OW in the pictures! I'm shocked!
Just a few weeks ago she was texting my H how much she misses him and loves him and just wish he'd talk to her again...and then she texted me on my birthday to say Happy Birthday & Easter (it was on Easter this year). We both ignored her. But for her to tag this whore who has never even met the family in a video of my younger SIL singing a solo in a concert...I just can't even believe it. I haven't said a word to her since all of this went down (My H was the one that told her off). I'm not going to say anything...but this makes me want to contact her. She doesn't even understand what she's doing and how humiliating this is. Even if she wants to claim OC as family...OW will never be family so why are you tagging her in videos of people she's never even met!!! ugh
I just needed to vent. I wonder if she's mad we sent an invitation for my SIL to come to our son's 5th bday party at the end of the month to her house and she's not invited.
UGH...every time something like this happens I'm reminded how much I hate this situation and hope only the worst for OW.
I know passive agressive but if she's going to put her on social media then you may as well call a spade a spade.
Torn- We are NC and my H has been and made it clear to OW he will never have contact with her again even before I knew about the whole situation. He confided in MIL before telling me and she knows how serious the situation is, which hurts even more for her to do all this. I'm also pregnant again (9 weeks today)...so it'll be interesting to see how she reacts to finding out about the new baby. Keep us updated on your letter!! I've been thinking of sending OW a letter lately too...not a forgiveness letter though LOL. But I'm not sure that I want her to know I even think about her. I've just been feeling lately like she needs to know that if one day she finds her own man instead of going after others, to please encourage that man to adopt OC for OC's sake because my H will never be around (I have a feeling MIL is telling her to just wait it out and eventually he'll want contact...because she told my SIL that she thinks my H will eventually talk to her again once he gets over "being a baby"). And I also want her to know my MIL isn't contacting her because H wants her to or anything (I don't want her to think that H isn't talking to her because of me so he has MIL do the go between...know what I mean?).
Have a good weekend guys!