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Dealing with your spouse not only having an affair but a child as a result and how it affects your day to day life and the lives of your children.

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amethyst80 01/27/2009

Ok, so we are now 1 day passed the first due date and 3 days passed the 2nd due date. Not to mention the OW has Heart problems that she is on meds and seeing a specialist for. Yet the dr is allowing her to go pasted her due dates? Also she was in the hospital on the 24th (2nd DD) but released the same day. Oh, and lets not forget that she has worked up until a week ago. I know for a fact that any DR would put someone in her condition on Bedrest at 5mths along due to the increased blood supply her weak heart would be required to push. At this point if she hasn't been telling the truth about her due dates, there is no way the baby is my H. But, how do you find that out? I want my to get on with my life!!!!!!!!! Help what do I do, I don't want to keep playing these games.

deleted_user 01/27/2009

WTF!!!!! I don't get her not being on bers=est either. My H BM was off of work for like high blood pressure and a 'stressful' job when she was like 4 months pregnant. Someone is lieing big time! Is your H getting the test done? Tell him don't sign a MFin (excuse my language) thing until he gets the child tested. I know in IL once you sign the papers regardless of wether you are the father or not you are responsible and its hell to get your name off. Also in IL you can get a free test through the state if you don't test on your own or sign papers. I would check that out in your state. All in all someone either is lieing or don't know their math. Hang in there and I pray you dodge this bullet.

amethyst80 01/27/2009

No he will not be signing anything until a dna test is done. That is no an option and he wants the test just as much as me. I know that thier is a possible other daddy for this kid, like her ex-h or H that she lives with. I just want this over with it has been going on 9mth to long.

deleted_user 01/27/2009

I feel for you. Thats crazy 3 guys. I was pissed earlier so this (bers=est) should have been bedrest. LMAO

deleted_user 01/27/2009

Also shit like this pisses me off. These people shouldn't be allowed to have kids and I can't get one.

deleted_user 01/27/2009

MJ-that is how it is in most cases and most of these woman know good and well they should not have any kids but they think it is cute and funny. the Ow in my case has 4 kids by 4 different men and this is the kind if trash my husband got involved with. and unless it is a problem for you-none of us here are offended by 4+ letter words, sometimes it makes you feel better when you say them! no need to abbreviate them. LOL

Amethyst80-i feel so bad for you-i could not imagine having to wait all this time to find out if your world will be turned upside down. this must be hell on earth for you. when i found out the kid was 15 months old, our son was 19 months and i thought that was bad but i can not imagine having to wait for the baby to be born. my heart goes out to you. i hope in the end the baby will not be his and this nightmare will all be over for you. and if it is don't rub it in our faces!LOL just come back and say hello every once and a while

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