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Dealing with your spouse not only having an affair but a child as a result and how it affects your day to day life and the lives of your children.

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lilhurt420 08/18/2014

I suspected she was pregnant a while ago when she posted a picture on FB of her, OC, and what seems to be her newest boyfriend and was holding her stomach. I thought maybe it was the dress she had on though, like she was holding it down. I just noticed over the weekend she posted a picture about doing that ice bucket challenge going around and in her hash tags she added "22 weeks pregnant"

She's only a week behind me! While I know this one is not DH's and she's now moved 4 hours away, I can't help but think WTF! My MIL liked her picture...so she knows. I'm hoping she tells my DH, because I don't tell him anything I see about her and he doesn't check on FB either. OC is not even 1.5 yet. This whore cried in court how she can't afford day care and medical...now she's pregnant again!?! She quit her job and had to move back to her home town.

These creatures really are something else! I can't even believe that we'll be having kids at the same time. Ugh the thought of it grosses me out.

tornforgood 08/18/2014

Happy Monday Hurt, yes they are pretty gross but don't even sweat it. If it was the oW that was prego from another dude in my case I would have been psyched!!! One bec Id love to see my Hs reaction to her having a man keep his kid and knock her up, two bec I know it would be harder for her to reach out to him. Maybe I will be as lucky as you, just see it as shes moving along and moving on.

tornforgood 08/18/2014

This is truly a good thing, just think that not all of the OWs can move on when they have multiple kids/baby daddies. Unless they find a sucker or another womans H.

lilhurt420 08/18/2014

Thanks Torn. I know it really is a good thing. I am psyched she's moved on and was dumb enough to get herself pregnant again by another random guy (they couldn't have been together that long). It just annoys me she's only a week behind me, but I'll get over it. I know when my DH finds out he's going to be even more disgusted with her than he was when she got pregnant and didn't know if it was his or someone elses.

AuntTAnn 08/18/2014

These sluts need to have their twats sewed shut! Pardon the language, but I can't help it. I do think it very gross of the bitch to get knocked up again out of wedlock, but I agree with Torn that this will reroute her away from your hubs, not to mention, show him what a slut she really is, if he ever doubted it.

lilhurt420 08/18/2014

I want to tell him so bad, but he doesn't know I check her facebook lol. He'll find out sooner or later since my MIL liked her picture and is aware of it. He always thought she was nothing but a slut (that's why he used her for sex) but between her not knowing if OC was his or someone else from the beginning to now her getting pregnant not even 1.5 years after having OC...he's going to think even worse of her. The more I think about it, it's kind of funny to me. She obviously hasn't been dating this new guy long (since just in December she cried in court about how she couldn't afford day care and medical and how it's hard having a kid on her own...so she must not have been with him then, but got pregnant only 3 months later), so for her to be so stupid to let herself get pregnant again by some random guy just shows she really does just sleep around.

tornforgood 08/18/2014

On the facebook note. I dont have fb for the same reason Im here. I just however snooped today w my moms acct. my H is not on there unless w alias. The whore is there and its a fairly new acct. i guess its bec shes not w H anymore (he hates fb) if i check hers periodically can she see me snooping??? Again, its my moms acct. and so far hers is not too private. Any advice?

AuntTAnn 08/19/2014

I've been told that other people CANNOT see who's looked at their page, but that if you look enough, then FB will suggest you as a friend which can be a tipoff to people that you've been stalking them. I don't know if that's true or not, so I have an alias fb account page just for snooping.

tornforgood 08/19/2014

Alias as in a company name or random person name so its an unknown person? Tx. Good info bec I will keep snooping. I will do my best to keep it periodically bec it upsets me just to see her and it doesn't help in my daily mental peace.

lilhurt420 08/19/2014

I have an alias account with no info on it that I snoop under. Really just to look at OW's page. I didn't know that if you look enough eventually it'll suggest them as a friend to you.

DH doesn't know I have it, so that's why I can't just tell him about what I see about her. I think he'd be mad I'm snooping on FB. Oh well. It gives me some peace of mind to know what she's up to sometimes.

tornforgood 08/19/2014

If it suggest her as a potential friend thats ok. I would be afraid if it suggests me to her. I wonder? And yes i will do this for peace of mind as well.

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