that is how women like that are! that is good that he did not respond. best thing to do is ignore it.
if she does it again do a restraining order maybe. hopefully your P-Test will come back wrong after the baby is born. I do not think you or your H should feel like they need to be involved in childs life right now-baby is too young. will hurt your marriage. take time to work on your marriage and family as you know.

Thank you for the helpful advice. Been only running into negativity lately.

What is happening is that she is finally starting to realize exactly what she did. She got pregnant by a married man. Now that her due date is here it's hitting her that she not only did she help screw up a marriage but she has also screwed her child out of a chance of having a father in his/her life. For the first time she is forced to think of someone besides her selfish self and she's panicking. She will do anything to reach out and try to get your husband to be part of the babies life. I'm glad he did not respond. Do not respond because once she thinks she has an "in", it won't stop. That's exactly what happened to us. Stick to what you guys have agreed on.

If you both change your minds later then go through an attorney. Do not contact her!! If you don't change your mind and decide you want to stick with no contact, then don't let anyone make you feel guilty for your choices. In this crappy situation, everyone loses out. Not just the OC. You and your husband do whats best for your family and don't let anyone tell you your wrong.

Jewel is exactly right. She has such wisdom in these matters.

Thank you Jewel0472!!

Jewel is so right. These selfish scavenger women are starved for attention whether positive or negative and being ignored crushes their ego. Also, if you can convince your husband to tell you every time he goes to see
and tell the other woman that his wife knows he is visiting the child, this is a thrill kill for them.