I am so sorry he put you in this situation!! Does he have contact with the other child and the other woman still?

I am in disbelief as well... You are right to be angry! How did you find out? Did he tell you outright?

Disgusting. I hope for your sake this has stopped his involvement with the affair partner. My H has contact and it is HORRIBLE since he does not use a mediator for exchanging messages and the child for visits. He skypes the child weekly and since she's almost 3 and can't talk yet and it's done on the whore's phone, she's all involved. The worst part is that he does not speak to her with contempt like he should under the circumstances. I feel like I'm at the bottom of his priority list.

He's gone back to the country where he committed the adultery as his business is there and as he's obsessed with his new baby .
It's over for me but it doesn't stop him asking for money To pay his credit cards! He's seriously sick in the head so I've cut all contact no phone calls for 5 weeks and now I've decided no email.
My 26 year old daughter is shocked and appalled

I found out by him leaving a diary then found he had a Facebook account with five friends the mistress was one of his friends and the her red headed baby shocked me to the core! It couldn't be and it was my husbands baby! He's so stupid 5 minutes of sex has become a life of misery for him!

He's got no money and a baby it's a mess!