Well my H, OW gave birth. It is a boy. We can't do a DNA test because the baby has jaundice and the light treatments alter the DNA, so we have to wait until the Jaundice is gone and then another 2 weeks for his little system to get back to normal. Errr, the waiting never ends, does it? Every part of my body and soul is screaming out that, yes it is my H baby. I am 90% sure, but want the dna test anyways. I have been a complete mess the last few days and My H is scared to death he is loosing me. Well, he should be. Everyone says listen to your heart, but my heart is what made me love in so much in the first place and look where that has got me. I asked the OW to sit down with me and have a chat. I know that may not be a wise thing to do, but it needs to be done, just me and her. She most likely won't take me up on it, but at least I tryed to be the bigger person here, right?
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