wow-so sorry. is that not want u want? do u still want to work things out with him? claiming support u might not get much.

Oh Barefoot...I'm so sorry.

Did he tell you to file for divorce for the purpose of securing money? Or does he want a true divorce? I'm also pregnant and have been contemplating divorce too. I remember you replying to my post saying you suspect your husband has a personality disorder, just like I suspect of mine.

How are you feeling about all this?

Barefoot he is probably scared. He might see this third baby as an additional burden on your fam. He might be sorry for saying that later but if he meant it and goes forward towards separation it might be his end. Who knows. This might be the best thing to happen to you. So sad but true.

Oh I'm sorry for the timing but I this baby is a blessing. We wives of cheating men with oc are a strong stock and toy will get through this. Thank God for this group. Nothing makes me feel more normal than anybody I'm here with my kind lol.

I think filing will be a financial benefit.

First of all congrats on your baby. I know how you are feeling even though I tried for almost a year for our second. I filed for child support without being divorced. It did secure money for us. But he OC just get slightly less than my two. I'm so sorry this is a sad time when it should be happy. He took that from you & you have every right to be angry. You just have to decide if you want to be with him or not. You are so much stronger than you know. I regretted getting pregnant for months. I wondered how I could have been so selfish when we couldn't really afford it but things work out & this little girl has been such a blessing. Good luck Hun!