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Dealing with your spouse not only having an affair but a child as a result and how it affects your day to day life and the lives of your children.

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Ex hurting for money

dmdempse1
dmdempse1
Been divorced for 3 years and my Ex and one of his girlfriends (bank loan officer) hacked my bank account to buy clothes for the OW and OC. I'm pressing civil charges against them both after the feds are done with them. No win situation. OC will end up with not father figure and teased.
redsimom
redsimom
You married the wrong person. I'm sorry you did so but now is the time to forgive yourself for that bad life choice.
pinkpony66
pinkpony66
He sounds like a real douche bag. Hacking into your accounts has to be a very serious charge. I hope the law takes careof his ass.
dmdempse1
dmdempse1
Red, get over yourself. I was married 27 years and a United States Air Force vet. I would appreciate a little respect. Military relationships are always a struggle.
dmdempse1
dmdempse1
Red, your profile pic says it all. If you not ashamed of your bad choice, put your real pic on here. Minion--
dmdempse1
dmdempse1
Thank you for your true support Pink. I respect your thoughts always. We argue, but we respect each other. Thanks again friend. ;)
dmdempse1
dmdempse1
Come to find out, my ex H didn't do it. He does apparently have a few morals left. Thank you Jesus! I prayed it wasn't him!!!!
anywonder
anywonder
go for it! prosecute to the fullest!
Child will be OK!
sometimes, people need to be put in their own 'place setting' at the table of life.
I admire your strenght!!
dmdempse1
dmdempse1
Thank you Any. OC is with OW. Never met him. Hurts my heart. Now divorced, but after 30 years of marriage,I am still a part of him and he of me. Time will not wash away.