So I finally put my foot down with my H, I told him that I needed closure on this one way or another. I told him what I would do if I were in his shoes. I said, that if she is 100% sure you are the dad, like she claims, she should have a problem with you doing any test you wanted. I also explained that she will want child support sooner or later and why not just go through the state with the test cause that is as legal as it gets. He wants to do the cheep infomational test and then sign papers if the test comes back as dad. My gut tells me she is just trying to get him to rule himself out as dad so that she doesn't have to tell her H about the affair, but that is just my gut. I figured if I was correct she would choose the info test, since it could be done with out anyone else finding out, and guess what I was so right. That is the one she wants to do. I also saw pictures of the kid and he looks nothing like my H or his other child that he has. The kid however does look just like her other two kids. I am so done with all of this. I told my H that if there wasn't an end to it soon, I was leaving just to keep my health and sanity. It is funny how he changed tunes real fast. I will keep you all posted as to the outcome of this.