I have not had to face the reality of this OC but i know the pain will worsen for me as well when it comes. I am sorry you're going through this and there's nothing that that can be said to take it away only pray time will make it better for you and remember you are blessed with 3 beautiful girls make them your focus and your strength.

Your girls need you. Also, OW would be thrilled if you were out of the pic. Remember that you have the upper hand not her. You are better than she is. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

I'm so sorry tormented! If it helps...I'm sure the OW will be upset when your husband is there for your new little girl and not there for hers.

We're trying for our last and we have a son. I've had 2 miscarriages since we've been trying, but we want a little girl so bad. OC is a girl (I was thankful...if it had been a boy I think it may had been a little harder for H to turn his back on his own accord). I know I'll be upset if once we finally have another baby it's another boy. My H wants US to have a little girl cause he wants a little me, plus he wants a daddys girls to stick up for him once OC (or anyone else) comes out the woodwork calling him a deadbeat one day.

hey if we end up with a boy...we can trade babies!! (JUST KIDDING :) LOL...hope it made you laugh though)

I hope your day gets better!

Thank you all...Lil Hurt yea we can trade! I don't know why I couldn't get that boy maybe the u/s will be wrong but I'm not getting my hopes up. I thought about the anger it may cause the OW but it didn't bring me joy, lol. Thank you guys!

Tormented you hang in there. You and your girls are far more worthy than that beotch. You have what she wants and you deserve so stop thinking about harming yourself in any way.

I too (unknowingly) was pregnant at the same time. That's one of the hardest parts of this crap.
Stay strong you will have a beautiful baby girl who will light up your life.

(((Hugs)))
Pink

In addition, as pink said... I was prego as well and according to my research and calcs H and Ow started out during that time. My h doesnt seem to enjoy sex with a pregnant wife even though I rocked it and managed to stay a fit pregnancy. H also "hit that" with OW during my second preg. So good news to you... At least you know about the prob and its over and done with and hubby is being good DURING pregnancy which like pink said sux bad when you are cheated on During. The prob developed before so now just focus on the few days of gestation you have left and let H dote on you and just push aside OW/oc prob. He chooses you.

When I look back and do my timeline history of events didn't the years he denied the A I can say that knowing he cheated while I was pregnant was the absolute most painful part of it all.

When I got pregnant with my last child and she got pregnant with oc he ended the A. He still kept ite a secret but ended it.

Don't allow her to take this time from you. You deserve to look forward to your new baby I know it seems impossible but as long as your H is dedicated to making this work our let him bend over backwards to make your happy.

And if you get just a touch of joy from the ow suffering, well be sure that she is. She will direct be the ow. Sheknows you have a family and she's got a lot of explaining to do. I know it's not very Christian of me but I do get a twinge of "ha!" When I think about ic talking about all his siblings dad and step mom and that one sibling is the same age.

I don't want the kids to feel bad bad but when parents try to do the math it's not rocket science.

Thanks you all. I hope that this is forever an embarrassing situation for OC and OW and H really. I feel like I'm the only one walking around in shame. I ashamed of being pregnant I'm PISSED that its another girl...and everyone else is going about smiling like this is some joyous occasion. Last year this time I was planning to finally have my wedding ceremony not knowing the whole time this tramp and my H were screwing while I was struggling to keep my eyes open on night shift. Mind you my children were asleep in the next room. It just pisses me off cause this whore is not even old enough to drink yet and she's already trying to benefit by putting her BASTARD child (sorry had to vent) on my H insurance and retirement benefits that he gets from a job I applied for and took the tests...I swear everyone needs a pass for one major crime mine would be murder.