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Dealing with your spouse not only having an affair but a child as a result and how it affects your day to day life and the lives of your children.
after bad news...some good news :)
lilhurt420
I feel like I'm always running to this site...but I know you guys are the only ones that will understand all this. I took your advice after my last post and have just not dated where the Chlamydia came from. I do believe my husband (although after being through all this there are still doubts). But for now I have no real reason to not believe him and have read a lot posts where similar things have happened and the guy even tested negative (especially common during pregnancy). Things are getting back to normal with us and we have a date night tonight.
So for the good news....I do sometimes stalk OW's page on face book. To see whats going on with her and try to see if she's ever plotting something. It's usually annoying posts about how she's so happy to be a mom (gag...if people only knew how you became a mom you wouldn't be so happy lol). Over the weekend she was at a wedding and today posted pics I guess, and there is a pic of her and her new man and he's holding OC! Her caption says she loves the 2 of them and they are her life. She's also holding her stomach in the pic, which I assume means she could be pregnant again. I'm happy OC has someone in her life as a father (though I hate the situation and dislike what OC stands for and want her to stay out of our lives, I don't wish harm on her...she's innocent). She's also moving back to her home town which is like 4 hours away from us. I can only hope that maybe she is pregnant by this new guy and he'll marry her and adopt OC! that would be a miracle especially since OC is only 1.
Then after they've been married a few years, I hope this guy cheats on her and gets someone else pregnant so she has to endure the pain I have!! lol
Anyways...hope all is well with you all and have a nice wekeend!
So for the good news....I do sometimes stalk OW's page on face book. To see whats going on with her and try to see if she's ever plotting something. It's usually annoying posts about how she's so happy to be a mom (gag...if people only knew how you became a mom you wouldn't be so happy lol). Over the weekend she was at a wedding and today posted pics I guess, and there is a pic of her and her new man and he's holding OC! Her caption says she loves the 2 of them and they are her life. She's also holding her stomach in the pic, which I assume means she could be pregnant again. I'm happy OC has someone in her life as a father (though I hate the situation and dislike what OC stands for and want her to stay out of our lives, I don't wish harm on her...she's innocent). She's also moving back to her home town which is like 4 hours away from us. I can only hope that maybe she is pregnant by this new guy and he'll marry her and adopt OC! that would be a miracle especially since OC is only 1.
Then after they've been married a few years, I hope this guy cheats on her and gets someone else pregnant so she has to endure the pain I have!! lol
Anyways...hope all is well with you all and have a nice wekeend!
AuntTAnn
I'm glad things are feeling better, Lil. And I LOVE your hope for the OW in the future! LOFL!
tornforgood
Good for you lil, at this point you should be letting all that go. After all nothing in this world is hidden for ever so leave it to destiny and if there was something fishy it will turn up. One way or another. Make good use of your time together bec once baby comes yet another set of challenges will arise that will put u both to the test. Have you mentioned the sex of your baby? Take care :))
lilhurt420
Torn- We find out in 2.5 weeks what the sex is. I'm hoping for a girl, DH is hoping for another boy! I'm excited to find out :)
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