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This is a ramble I made on my two-year anniversary. It's been posted here before, but I'm posting it again as I believe it still valid.
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As of this writing, I'm closing on 2 1/2 years quit. Cool, no? Yep, pretty cool, but no big deal anymore. Ok, ok, calm down. It really is not a big deal. The first year is a big deal. The first 6 months are a bigger deal. The first month is an even bigger deal. The first week is still yet an even bigger deal.
The biggest deal? That first cigarette you did not light up. That first unlit cigarette contains (yes, present tense) the courage of your convictions, your promise to yourself, your hope for your future, the door to your freedom. As long as that cigarette remains cold, your quit is secure.
To you new quitters, and those not quite there yet, I have a few things to say. You'll read here, and other places, that quitting will be the hardest thing you will ever do. People will tell you about terrible craves, slips, relapses, the tiny chance you have to succeed, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah. Don't listen to them. Ignore what they say, forget what you've already learned. That's their stuff, not yours. Do not allow anyone to define your quit. That's your business. Your quit may be one of the horrible ones that finds you fighting every minute of everyday for months. Or it may be one of those easy ones where you just walk away from smoking with barely a twinge. The only way to know is to do it.
One of your best weapons is knowledge. Forewarned is forearmed. Knowledge is power. Learn how to combat craves should you have any. Also learn the side effects of quitting so you will understand what's happening should any of the myriad emotional changes set in. Don't assume you will need the information, but have it just in case. Better to have and not need, than to need and not have.
Some would have you believe it's all over in 72 hours because the nicotine is out of your system. Hogwash!! Tobacco use does a lot of damage to the brain's pleasure/reward centers and recovery is not necessarily quick. The pleasure/reward centers are where the addiction resides. Until they recover you may experience varying desires for smoking, from out-and-out craves to the subtle calling from that "blanket of comfort".
You who are planning or just thinking about quitting, I say to you "Do it!" Use whatever method you feel is best for you and quit. It may be easy or it may be hard, but I tell you right now it is so very worth it. If I had known before I quit what I know now, I would have walked on fire to get here.
You who are still actively working on your quit, I bow to you. You are in the worst of it right now. If you are having it easy, that is wonderful. But do not become complacent. Do not drop your guard. If you are having it rough, then draw courage and strength from wherever you can find it, stick it out, do not cave. Nothing you are feeling will harm you and you will get through it. If necessary, try another quit method. Whatever it takes. Just stay quit. Please!
You who have made the transition from active quitter to non- (or ex-) user, I say "Congratulations on a job well done." I don't care how long it took you to get here, what paths you took, or how many slips/relapses you had. None of that is important. You are here, that is all that matters. Pat yourself on the back and give yourself a reward; you've certainly earned them.
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Wishing all your first unsmoked cigs stay cold.
Blessings to you all.
Shevie
Quit May, 2005
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As of this writing, I'm closing on 2 1/2 years quit. Cool, no? Yep, pretty cool, but no big deal anymore. Ok, ok, calm down. It really is not a big deal. The first year is a big deal. The first 6 months are a bigger deal. The first month is an even bigger deal. The first week is still yet an even bigger deal.
The biggest deal? That first cigarette you did not light up. That first unlit cigarette contains (yes, present tense) the courage of your convictions, your promise to yourself, your hope for your future, the door to your freedom. As long as that cigarette remains cold, your quit is secure.
To you new quitters, and those not quite there yet, I have a few things to say. You'll read here, and other places, that quitting will be the hardest thing you will ever do. People will tell you about terrible craves, slips, relapses, the tiny chance you have to succeed, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah. Don't listen to them. Ignore what they say, forget what you've already learned. That's their stuff, not yours. Do not allow anyone to define your quit. That's your business. Your quit may be one of the horrible ones that finds you fighting every minute of everyday for months. Or it may be one of those easy ones where you just walk away from smoking with barely a twinge. The only way to know is to do it.
One of your best weapons is knowledge. Forewarned is forearmed. Knowledge is power. Learn how to combat craves should you have any. Also learn the side effects of quitting so you will understand what's happening should any of the myriad emotional changes set in. Don't assume you will need the information, but have it just in case. Better to have and not need, than to need and not have.
Some would have you believe it's all over in 72 hours because the nicotine is out of your system. Hogwash!! Tobacco use does a lot of damage to the brain's pleasure/reward centers and recovery is not necessarily quick. The pleasure/reward centers are where the addiction resides. Until they recover you may experience varying desires for smoking, from out-and-out craves to the subtle calling from that "blanket of comfort".
You who are planning or just thinking about quitting, I say to you "Do it!" Use whatever method you feel is best for you and quit. It may be easy or it may be hard, but I tell you right now it is so very worth it. If I had known before I quit what I know now, I would have walked on fire to get here.
You who are still actively working on your quit, I bow to you. You are in the worst of it right now. If you are having it easy, that is wonderful. But do not become complacent. Do not drop your guard. If you are having it rough, then draw courage and strength from wherever you can find it, stick it out, do not cave. Nothing you are feeling will harm you and you will get through it. If necessary, try another quit method. Whatever it takes. Just stay quit. Please!
You who have made the transition from active quitter to non- (or ex-) user, I say "Congratulations on a job well done." I don't care how long it took you to get here, what paths you took, or how many slips/relapses you had. None of that is important. You are here, that is all that matters. Pat yourself on the back and give yourself a reward; you've certainly earned them.
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Wishing all your first unsmoked cigs stay cold.
Blessings to you all.
Shevie
Quit May, 2005
Hugs Deb
Love to you.
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Blessings to you.
Shevie