It sounds like a lot of us are in places that are tough right now and not ideal for a relationship, but we all still want to find that true heart-stopping unconditional love. I know with all the medical issues I have been dealing with there is no way I could be in a new relationship and have to explain why I have no breasts at this time.

I heard a story one time about this couple who had been dating and the first night they were going to get their freak on she went into the bathroom to change and she stuck her head out the door and threw her prosthetics at him and told him to get a head start. LOL

Seems there are too many shy men that would make great catches and too many wankers who only want one thing.

I hold onto hope and faith that when I'm ready, she will also be ready. I am aware this relationship is a long shot, though today I can say "no". NO based off -- been their, done that. When intuition warns me she doesn't understand something about my MH and or physical disabilities, a lot of time and heartache is kept away. Yearning for sums up what I think/feel murph23 is asking...

Hey all, been a while since I've posted. But yeah, I do believe there is someone out there for everyone. Honestly I believe there are more than one out there for everyone. If you think about it, you find "the one" and something happens to that one, as time passes and you grieve, and get better you find another "the one". So it is my approach why wait for "the next one". Not saying being married to multiple people or being just casual, but I believe there is love that can be shared. My wife has been with me for almost 11 years, but understands my going out with other girls (As if I was single as I kinda consider it).

I know most of you won't agree, and that's fine. Just my manic thought on the subject. Hold on, and someone will find and love you for YOU. And that includes the bad as well as good.