Sexual Abuse Support Group
Sexual abuse is a relative cultural term used to describe sexual relations and behavior between two or more parties which are considered criminally and/or morally offensive. Different types of sexual abuse involve: Non-consensual, forced physical sexual behavior such as rape, incest or sexual assault, or psychological forms of abuse, such as verbal sexual behavior or...
When I was younger...I had been woke up by someone who was trying to molest me ..I can only remember twice when I was 10 ..And the last time when I was 15 . (Scared ..I never told My Parents) .. Last Time It happened I Screamed For My sister ..And She was aware of that time .But He gave her Some Lame excuse That He thought it was her>>I never Stayed At their house again ..I had told Another Family Member about this at the time this happened. This Person Recently was released from Federal Prison .. And Is supposed to be A reg.sex.offender..(My sis wont tell me the of the charges .( But she said He never touched any one > Well What She doesnt remember Him Hovering over me .when she walked in when I was Sreaming for her ..
Since He has been released I have Not been Unable to sleep ( PTSD ?) I dont know I have Horrible Night Mares ..I have. never recieved any Professional help. Angry with Myself for not telling her ..And Most of all Pissed that She Took him Back ! He has Done nothing but Treat her like Crap all of their Marriage ..And I want to PUKE when she says "How he has Changed " And IS so much better and Healthy ..I guess He took up running While away.. I just dont know what to do ..Remind Her ?..Or just Leave it alone and go seek Help for Me ? Hope this made sence
Since He has been released I have Not been Unable to sleep ( PTSD ?) I dont know I have Horrible Night Mares ..I have. never recieved any Professional help. Angry with Myself for not telling her ..And Most of all Pissed that She Took him Back ! He has Done nothing but Treat her like Crap all of their Marriage ..And I want to PUKE when she says "How he has Changed " And IS so much better and Healthy ..I guess He took up running While away.. I just dont know what to do ..Remind Her ?..Or just Leave it alone and go seek Help for Me ? Hope this made sence
If he's around kids for any length of time? then she does need to be reminded immediately.
If not around kids, then it's less urgent, but I would still tell her, also tell her about the times you did not cry out.
I too believe in therapy and sometimes it takes a lifetime of therapy........
It is sad that your sister does not realize or want to believe what this man did, obviously someone turned him in and they had enough evidence to convict him. I don't believe the sexual offenders can be reformed..............
If it will make you feel better, look him up on the sexual registry and see if he is registered and you will find what he is charged with. I make sure that my ex re-registers every 3 months and look at his ugly face to remind myself what he did and what a ugly person he is.
So dont ask for advice, or talk to her, because she wont get it, or cares not to remember it.
As far as not getting sleep, well regulate it safely. You dont want to know what I would do to someone who messing up my sleep..LOL. This makes a lot of sense as well. Good luck and get some sleep.