I am new here and really dont know where to start. So I guess ill start with this, When my husband and i started dating 2 years ago he watched porn. He asked me to watch it with him. I let him know im not a fan of porn but id watch just one with him. Afterwards i informed him i still dont like it and doesnt do anything for me. He said it was ok and said he wouldnt watch it anymore. I have had a couple questionable things come up so i asked him if he was watching it. He stated no he wouldnt watch it without me because it would be considered cheating if he did. He said to sexually satisfy himself without me would be cheating. Sex with him was amazing, but started to get IDK different (wierd) i guess. It started with role playing-1st i had to be daddys lil girl, then went to hes mommas bad lil boy, to his cheating whore wife and with that one he wanted me to degrade him calling him names and talk about how he doesnt know how to satisfy his whore wife ect.... Then well my husband is vey racist to say the least so it became not just his whore wife but i had to talk about having sex with (putting things lighty here) "men of a different race." in detail using the "N" word, which i am totally against!!! That was the one he finally always wanted to hear. I would tell him i wasnt comfortable with this role playing thing and it was hard for me to just talk "crap" to him like that. That angered him greatly--degrading me and complaining and threatening to not have sex anymore if i didnt want to role play like that. He would constantly ask me to watch porn with him, learning the hard way i knew not to refuse to watch it anymore. The type of porn he finally just wanted to watch was a black men having sex with white women and mostly with some kind of dominance. He wanted me to talk about having sex with my ex's. Hounded me for a threesome with me him and another male. He said it would turn him on to watch another man (putting lightly again) have sex with his wife and then he wanted to join, degrading him shaming him and calling him names during this time. Bondage and "rough" play became a thing too. Then the "toys". My conceren was when he wanted me to where a stap on and use it on him. That was something he "in the end" seem to like the most and always wanted it. I was constantly satisfying him without the favor being returned. In the beginning he always made sure i was "taken care of" but that didnt seem to matter anymore. It was always when and how he wanted it never when i did. He had many strange requests like riding in the car with no pants on or no shirt. wanted to take a "toy" in car with us and satisfy myself while he was driving ect. No matter how much i told him i didnt want to do things he would hound me relentlessly untill i gave in. In fear of his actions i would finally just give in. It got to the point where no matter how amazing it felt, i just didnt/couldnt enjoy sex with him anymore. Strange conversations he would ask me about my past--how many i had been with and thier size. He said it turned him on thinking about me being with another man. Im so confused. How could you be turned on by someone else having sex with your spouse? Just talking about him makes him hard. Any suggestions, reasonings answers to why he is like this????????? Does it make him a lil "gay" or bisexual because he enjoys the strap on and likes wathcing men with HUGE cocks on porn?? He literally looks up "huge cocks" or even " huge black cocks". Totally lost and confused over here!! HELP!!!!