Sexual Abuse Support Group

Sexual abuse is a relative cultural term used to describe sexual relations and behavior between two or more parties which are considered criminally and/or morally offensive. Different types of sexual abuse involve: Non-consensual, forced physical sexual behavior such as rape, incest or sexual assault, or psychological forms of abuse, such as verbal sexual behavior or...

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CrimsonTears
CrimsonTears

My rapist was put in jail nearly 2 years ago and he is up for parole November 9th of this year and I'm terrified. I have an order of protection but that means they have to give him my address and work address etc so he knows where he is not allowed to go. He already has past charges for violating an EPO and I'm afraid he will come after me for putting him in jail. I feel stronger than I did when he attacked me but I'm still afraid of him hurting me again. I'm trying to stay positive but its hard and the flashbacks have been intense lately because its getting so close to his parole hearing. Yesterday the VINE victim notification service called to tell me he had been released from 1 jail and I thought he had made early parole or something but he had been transferred to prison. I don't know how to handle this and I dont know what I will do when he's released especially if it's this soon. I thought when I accepted him taking a plea deal I would be better prepared by the time this happened but I'm not and I'm just so afraid

donnawanda
donnawanda
I'm very sorry for what you're going through. I don't know much about this topic but maybe you could get support and advice by calling or texting the organization against sexual assault called RAINN?? They have a website where you can text with someone and a hotline. I called them once and got great support.

The website is https://rainn.org/

Very best wishes to you - please let us know how it goes.
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