Sexual Abuse Support Group

Sexual abuse is a relative cultural term used to describe sexual relations and behavior between two or more parties which are considered criminally and/or morally offensive. Different types of sexual abuse involve: Non-consensual, forced physical sexual behavior such as rape, incest or sexual assault, or psychological forms of abuse, such as verbal sexual behavior or...

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PeekAhBooGirl
PeekAhBooGirl

We had a Heroes Day at school, military and such came over and talked. I almost started crying, when one of the men was telling us what a hero was to him. I want to be a hero to my sister, I don't want to be brave, but I don't want to break up my family.


I don't have a license yet and I'm to shy to get help. I dont know what to do.


There are days when I don't want to get up. I DONT want to face anyone. I feel like a failure, weak. I want to be better. 


When the memories over run me and o sit and cry and my sister or mom yells at me to do something and I don't have the energy, I don't want to lie to them if they see the tears, or my friends. 

Momabearx10
Momabearx10
Honey, at least go to www.rainn.org and chat with someone who can maybe find resources for you. You are deserving of healing and hope.
donnawanda
donnawanda
I agree with Momabearx10. Please chat with someone at RAINN.org. You are deserving of help. Not having energy to do what is asked of you sounds like depression. And if your family breaks up, it won't be your fault - it will be the abuser's fault. You didn't ask to be abused and he didn't have to abuse you. It's all HIS fault - none of it is your fault. You are suffering - why would you have chosen this? Answer: you didn't.
PeekAhBooGirl
PeekAhBooGirl
Thanks all of ya!
Momabearx10
Momabearx10
You can remain anonymous too. You can chat or call. Just figure out how to help yourself where you arw.
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