Sexual Abuse Support Group
Sexual abuse is a relative cultural term used to describe sexual relations and behavior between two or more parties which are considered criminally and/or morally offensive. Different types of sexual abuse involve: Non-consensual, forced physical sexual behavior such as rape, incest or sexual assault, or psychological forms of abuse, such as verbal sexual behavior or...
im wondering now if it is and thats why it was such a mess.
you see they dont report it and as you say as far as i now you always report it.
so when people hassled me for reporting i just go "concealment"
its all academic now the issue was finished but i was trying to work out why it was and i still kept getting hassled.
im wondering now if it is hard to follow but thats what they do
they sort of go we'll get sued and they all stick together and go nothing happened. and just deny whatever it is they want lost
from the records. so of course you walk in and go when i was attacked, and they say what attack ?
do you remember the post where the priest an the others
denied the rape happened ? they do that . if it is hard to follow its perhaps well to remember thats what it looks like after,
thanks sorry if it looks muddled.
I think it is a little bit muddled. But because they muddled it.
The thing I find with systems is they do not work. It ends up with me feeling that noone actually cares, and what was in place in relation to what I think you are saying is just a load of blah blah blahs.
Then you end up feeling lost and confused and it ends up with being your responsibility, and you feeling your at fault. With no support. Even though all the systems are in place to support and help. And they state clearly what they are there for and the process etc but it just gets lost.
Well its wrong wrong wrong and I think you were right.
I hope that makes sense.