Sexual Abuse Support Group
Sexual abuse is a relative cultural term used to describe sexual relations and behavior between two or more parties which are considered criminally and/or morally offensive. Different types of sexual abuse involve: Non-consensual, forced physical sexual behavior such as rape, incest or sexual assault, or psychological forms of abuse, such as verbal sexual behavior or...
I know that's she dine if my bleeding comes from and now I have to use baby wipes to wipe/clean just cause it doesn't rip/tear like toilet paper ...
Yes, bathroom issues are 'normal' for victims/survivors... You're not by yourself...
(I dis like using the word 'normal' cause what is normal for one person is or may not be for the next person.... It's also fits for what are normal clothes on a washing machine.)
...it's not your fault.
My wife and I are both victims of sexual abuse, of different kinds, we were both told no one would ever want us, love us, care for us... It's kinda funny in a way that everything she was told by her dad clear up to even AFTER we got married! Was the same thing that I've heard all my life in other ways.
Is our marriage a walk in the park? No, is it easy? Ha ha ha !!! No... Lol
But it's totally worth it!
Did it take time to find each other? OHHH YEAH!!!
Did I waste my time on other girls? Well, I call them 'stepping stones'
They were stepping stones to get to the real one! Some are shaky, some feel really safe only to fail you in someway, but all are in the past.
But when you find that one... It doesn't matter what you've been in, in the past, they will no longer care. They will love you for you! Wrap their arms around you, and you will cry... You will feel safe, warm, and any worry if anything of your past will melt away. You won't forget, I'm sorry,... sadly probably never will forget that, but those memories will melt... You'll understand when it happens...