Sexual Abuse Support Group
Sexual abuse is a relative cultural term used to describe sexual relations and behavior between two or more parties which are considered criminally and/or morally offensive. Different types of sexual abuse involve: Non-consensual, forced physical sexual behavior such as rape, incest or sexual assault, or psychological forms of abuse, such as verbal sexual behavior or...
are there marks if youre attacked ? not always but sometimes there are
if you get knocked over and yure on the floor or collapse or something
the clothes rip, even the knees rip on the concrete as you hit the floor
so you get the grazzes and some bruising at least, you can also get
markson youre back, i had some near my spine.
you can also get burns, i had a 3-4 inch blister once, its pretty
simple they pin you up against something and on that occasions it was a radiator/fire. that one was oil filled. so as i was on the floor my back was on the radiator. you do blister at that heat level. the nails get broken
or other clothes rip, sometimes they rip at the seams like the arms etc,
but the stress of a scuffle may do that and the seams go. you may get that on more than occasion, did i have any breakages ? no.
is that always recorded ? no they dont bother too at times.
did i always get medical assistance - no i just got some ointment
for this orr that or plasters, is there a point telling anyone anyway at times ? it was pretty much like that,
if you get knocked over and yure on the floor or collapse or something
the clothes rip, even the knees rip on the concrete as you hit the floor
so you get the grazzes and some bruising at least, you can also get
markson youre back, i had some near my spine.
you can also get burns, i had a 3-4 inch blister once, its pretty
simple they pin you up against something and on that occasions it was a radiator/fire. that one was oil filled. so as i was on the floor my back was on the radiator. you do blister at that heat level. the nails get broken
or other clothes rip, sometimes they rip at the seams like the arms etc,
but the stress of a scuffle may do that and the seams go. you may get that on more than occasion, did i have any breakages ? no.
is that always recorded ? no they dont bother too at times.
did i always get medical assistance - no i just got some ointment
for this orr that or plasters, is there a point telling anyone anyway at times ? it was pretty much like that,
they throw you out of the house. they lie, accuse you, they try
runnung you down in a verbal tirade. they go to social depts
and accuse you, or call the police and accuse you. thats seemingly
to try to build up a profile like a reference, like trying to say look
at what they are like can you believe them ?
for some depts its easier to blame the victim like down at tom whites
it means tey dont have to do anything and can get and easy life, why do they think we would have them near us anyway after ?
you can get a gang up, where they spread the effect of the accusations. so youre standing there after the abuse etc and get
this chorus going of what you are in the background.
its a bit like that with a rape at any level even ones thought about
and perhaps had "moved" on the victim. people blame the victim
want to protect friends or other interests, some of the girls say
it was her some will say it was him, but ssome will get snotty nosed
at the victim(s), boys do protect boys, its an easy thing to claim on a man and perhaps some get worried in case its lies, but i/we wasnt lying, but its also easy to do to a girl, or any mixes of boys or girls
biologically. it pretty good confirmation if theres confessions
but forensics are needed if you can get them. victims sometimes
have a history of being backed off claims, i suppose that could make them withdraw something or other in intimadation.
so be aware they could be lying that he didnt when he did, due to
being known to already be in trouble over the same or other things,
that one is possible. i think thats about that,